be who you are

Everybody Like You? The Libra Challenge

– Posted in: Astrological Primer, Astrology & Choice, Personal Growth, Saboteur, Soul Development, Sun Sign Energy
Libra Scales of Justice

If you've got some Libra somewhere in your chart, you probably want everybody to like you. I hate to break the news to you, but it ain't gonna happen. As the first sign of the Zodiac, Aries says "I am" and proceeds to discover just what that means: "the world according to Aries." It may [...]

Courage ≠ Fearless – Mars, Uranus, Pluto T-Square

– Posted in: Astrology & Choice, Choice, Personal Growth, Self-Care, Soul Development, Uranus Pluto Square
There is no Courage without Fear...

When I turned 40 I got my driver's license. It took me three tries to pass the road test. Terrible driver? Not really... terriFIED. Then I went out and bought a Mini Cooper S, yeah the turbo... stick shift. Why am I telling you this? I was terrified to drive. I was born & raised [...]

The Perfection Trap

– Posted in: Saboteur, What's Your Piece?
The Perfect Human?

I hate to burst your bubble, but there is no such thing as a “perfect human.” In fact “perfection”, by any typical definition, is a myth. If personal perfection means to be “flawless” then the entire world would have to perceive you as such. If I’m catching you early enough, never learn to walk: you [...]

On Your Marks.

– Posted in: Living a Fulfilling Life, Living in Choice, Personal Growth, Saboteur, What's Your Piece?

Many of today’s thought-leaders tout the importance of living meaningful lives. They provide profound and deeply meaningful offerings to get us moving: step-by-step solutions, workbooks, and inspirational videos, transformational prose, pod casts, workshops, seminars… and nearly all of the information can be powerful, and holds true wisdom. They incite us to: make powerful contributions to [...]

Own who you ARE…

– Posted in: Saboteur, What's Your Piece?

I've been noticing a tendency for people to "modestly deny" what they bring to the world, and I'm here to tell ya to "CUT IT OUT!" OK, let's consider what's up with this. You tell me that you don't want to appear to be immodest, or conceited, or full of yourselves... (sound like any Saboteurs [...]