being who you are

Everybody Like You? The Libra Challenge

– Posted in: Astrological Primer, Astrology & Choice, Personal Growth, Saboteur, Soul Development, Sun Sign Energy
Libra Scales of Justice

If you've got some Libra somewhere in your chart, you probably want everybody to like you. I hate to break the news to you, but it ain't gonna happen. As the first sign of the Zodiac, Aries says "I am" and proceeds to discover just what that means: "the world according to Aries." It may [...]

Saying "Yes" when you mean "No"? Reclaim Your Sun

– Posted in: Astrology & Choice, Choice, Living in Choice, Personal Growth, Self-Care, Soul Development, Sun Sign Energy
Sun through the trees

Why do we say "yes" when we mean "no"? When we say that what someone wants is more important than what we want; we give them our power. (Note for Parents: Our children are very important and... they learn self-valuing by watching us. Striking a balance here is vital which is a topic for a [...]

Courage ≠ Fearless – Mars, Uranus, Pluto T-Square

– Posted in: Astrology & Choice, Choice, Personal Growth, Self-Care, Soul Development, Uranus Pluto Square
There is no Courage without Fear...

When I turned 40 I got my driver's license. It took me three tries to pass the road test. Terrible driver? Not really... terriFIED. Then I went out and bought a Mini Cooper S, yeah the turbo... stick shift. Why am I telling you this? I was terrified to drive. I was born & raised [...]

Stepping Into the Light – Working with Your Sun Sign

– Posted in: Astrological Primer, Astrology & Choice, Choice, Evolution, Living a Fulfilling Life, Living in Choice, Personal Growth, Personal Growth, Saboteur, Self-Care, Sun Sign Energy
Allow your Solar Energy to infuse you.

Give light, and the darkness will disappear of itself."— Desiderius Erasmus Working from my home office requires a great deal of self-motivation. There are times when I find myself slipping into a lonely space and I lose focus; or worse my Saboteur (you know that nasty inner voice that whispers mean things in your ear) [...]

Uranus & Pluto Rock Your World

– Posted in: Astrology & Choice, Choice, Evolution, Living in Choice, Personal Growth, Uranus Pluto Square

#1 in a Series Concentrated times: June 2012, September 2012, May 2013, Nov 2013, April 2014, Dec 2014, and March 2015 Lately, the refrain out there has been "What's going on? Everything is so intense!" Indeed... We are in the midst of a Uranus/Pluto Square! So what the heck does that mean, right? Well... don't [...]